In today’s fast-paced life, where man has all the means for material comforts, two things seem to be left behind. The first challenge is to preserve deep and true relationships, while the second challenge is to remain connected to peace of mind i.e. spirituality.
The biggest crisis facing today’s young generation (Gen-Z and Millennials) is how to maintain a balance between these two. In this connection, famous actor, writer and philosopher Ashutosh Rana had a special conversation with ABP Live on the occasion of his new spiritual initiative ‘Durlabh Darshan’ (darshan of Mahakal and Ayodhya through 6D VR technology).
In this dialogue, he has given some very deep and practical formulas regarding life, spirituality and the changing relationships of today’s generation, which are very important to understand with the philosophy and mythological evidence of Sanatan Dharma.
Unique formula for beginning and ending relationships
Ashutosh Rana has said a wonderful thing, attacking the biggest weakness of today’s married life and relationships. He believes that before starting any relationship, we should understand the other person with full awareness, that is, then we should keep our eyes wide open.
But once you get into a relationship with someone, then you should close half of your eyes. This simply means that after a relationship is established, instead of complaining or complaining about every small flaw, it is necessary to ignore some things.
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Sanatan Darshan also teaches that no human being in this world is perfect and everyone has some qualities and some flaws. In the eighteenth chapter of Srimad Bhagavad Gita, Lord Shri Krishna has also said that just as fire is always covered with smoke, in the same way there is some flaw or defect in every human being or every action.
If we look at the mythological context, the same balance is seen in the lives of Mother Sita and Lord Shri Ram, where eligibility was tested before marriage, but after marriage, both of them accepted each other’s human limitations and kept only love and duty supreme.
In today’s era, relationships are breaking quickly because people try to change their partners after marriage, whereas closing half of the eyes does not mean indifference but maturity to accept the other person with his shortcomings.
Be a sensitive listener, not an advisor
During this conversation, Ashutosh Rana raised another very important practical thing which can remove the lack of communication in today’s era. He said that whenever your spouse or someone close to you shares any problem with you, do not immediately try to give him any solution or advice.
In fact, most people already have solutions to their problems, all they need is a sensitive ear that can listen to them patiently without judging them or having any prejudice.
Even in Indian philosophy, ‘Shravan’ i.e. deep listening has been given the first and most important place, be it in the field of spirituality or practical life. The biggest evidence of this is found in the battlefield of Mahabharata, when Arjun was surrounded by great depression and dilemma.
At that time Lord Shri Krishna did not immediately start preaching, rather he kept silently listening to every pain of Arjun, his tears and his arguments in the first chapter of Gita. Only when Arjun calmed down after saying his entire story, Krishna started speaking.
In today’s relationships, people listen not to understand but to respond immediately or to prove themselves right, whereas listening to someone carefully without any judgment eliminates half of his mental stress.
Lessons of modern life from the characters of Shri Ram and Mahadev
Ashutosh Rana has presented the character of Lord Shri Ram and Lord of Gods Mahadev as a great lesson for today’s generation. He explained that if we have to learn something from Maryada Purushottam Shri Ram, then we should learn how to maintain dharma and dignity, whether it is the dharma of a friend, the dharma of an enemy, that of a son or that of a husband.
On the other hand, from the character of Lord Shiva, we should learn how to establish consistency and harmony amidst all the inconsistencies of life.
If we look at Mahadev’s family, there are creatures of opposing nature living together at every level, like Mahadev has a snake around his neck and his son Kartikeya’s vehicle is a peacock, who are bitter enemies of each other. Despite this, there is ultimate peace, which teaches us how to live in harmony between adverse circumstances and people of different nature.
Ideological differences are a natural process in today’s modern families, but if we adopt Mahadev’s formula of how to live together lovingly despite different natures, then any family can be saved from disintegration.
A rare darshan is a wonderful confluence of science and spirituality.
At the end of the interview, Ashutosh Rana, while clarifying the objective of his new spiritual initiative ‘Durlabh Darshan’, said that the best use of technology is the one which instead of distracting the person, connects him to his roots and God.
In today’s fast-paced life, the elderly, sick or extremely busy people who are not able to physically go to Baba Mahakal’s Bhasma Aarti or Ayodhya Dham, can experience that complete divinity and fulfillment right from the comfort of their homes through this 6D VR (Virtual Reality) technology.
This initiative is the biggest proof that science and spirituality are not opposed to each other but complementary to each other. While science makes man’s external life easier and faster, spirituality fills his inner soul with patience and positive energy.
Ultimately, it can be said that in today’s changing times, strong relationships can survive not just through empty words, but through true understanding, patience, trust and the habit of listening to each other deeply.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Q. What did Ashutosh Rana say about relationships?
A. He said that before forming a relationship, understand the person well, but after forming a relationship, learn to accept small shortcomings.
Q. What is most important in relationships?
A. To listen patiently without judging the other person and accept his shortcomings.
Q. What lesson can we learn from Shri Ram and Lord Shiva?
A. Shri Ram inspires dignity and duty, while Lord Shiva teaches us to live in harmony between people of opposite nature.
Q. What is Rare Darshan?
A. This is a 6D VR technology based spiritual initiative, through which people can virtually experience the darshan of Mahakal and Ayodhya sitting at home.
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