How To Deal With Toxic Family Members Calmly: Gaurang Das, who gave up his corporate career after completing his engineering degree from IIT Bombay, believes that almost every family has someone whose behavior is mentally exhausting or negative, be it a distant relative or a family member. But the real difference is how you deal with such people. Let us tell you how to deal with such people.
How should one deal with such people?
He says that one should not pay the price of one’s mental peace to maintain any relationship. There is no compulsion to argue over everything, try to prove yourself right or tolerate someone’s abusive behavior. Sometimes the best way is to respond calmly, handle the situation intelligently or, if necessary, express your views in a polite manner. Setting boundaries with family is not a sign of arrogance, but a sign of emotional strength and self-security.
should avoid entanglement
The first way is that when someone tries to put you down as if you can’t do anything, instead of getting into trouble with him, smile and say that you are absolutely right. Hearing this, the other person becomes uncomfortable, because he does not expect your reaction. When you don’t argue, they have nothing left to say and the conversation ends there.
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answer politely
The second method comes in handy when people start giving advice or making comparisons without asking. Often we hear that “Look at Sharma ji’s son, how well he is doing, and you…” In such a situation, you can calmly answer, “Okay, you help me in getting a similar job.” As soon as you ask them to take responsibility, they step back. After this they think before making such comparisons again.
don’t show yourself weak
The third and most important way is not to show yourself weak. If someone repeatedly taunts or interferes excessively in your affairs, it is important to stop him in polite but clear words. Like you can say “Mamaji, why are you talking like that?” Or “Aunty, please don’t talk to me in this tone.” When you express your views with calmness and confidence, the other person also becomes alert. The most important thing is that your mental peace and self-respect are in your own hands. Just because someone is part of the family, it is not necessary to tolerate his/her misbehavior. Setting proper boundaries and maintaining self-respect are the keys to a healthy and balanced life.
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